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I'm really about to test the power of facebook with this one....
This is my husband, Charles Withers. He loves to be the center of attention but I'm not sure how much he's going to like this. Last year, when I was pregnant with our youngest baby he decided being a husband and a dad wasn't the lifestyle he wanted anymore and he ghosted, like gone without a trace. He has one baby he hasn't seen in over a year, and one he's never met. He's moved somewhere out of state and changed his phone number.
Divorcing someone who's completely unreachable is really tough and drawn out, so I'm trying to track him down to get his signature on a few papers so I can finally close this chapter and move on with my life.
I've heard he's going by "Charlie" now. He's british and charming AF. He's a chef and probably working in the hospitality industry somewhere. He's probably never mentioned having a wife or kids back in Massachusetts. If you know him, if you're working with him, if you're dating him or friends with him, can you please have him get in touch with me or let me know where I can find him
All the girls girls out there, feel free to share a friend of a friend has got to know where he is
A friend of a friend of a friend has got to know where he is.
I've gotten MORE than enough information to locate him. I have literally hundreds of messages to sort through, some with information and some with support and I appreciate all of them. Single moms are a special breed, and I know a lot of you have gone through the same situation I have.
Please know I truly do not wish him any type of ill will. I sincerely appreciate all of your support, but please do not make threats, spread hate, or try to go out and locate him. Truly I only want to see this situation resolved so me and my children can restart our lives and fix the damage done. At the end of the day I get to come home to my babies and be their mom, so I think I win regardless.
Also that karaoke video that everyone's sending .... I don't think that's actually him. So I apologize to whoever it is for your karaoke being blasted all over the internet. You did a great job though!
Thank you again to everyone
This is my husband, Charles Withers. He loves to be the center of attention but I'm not sure how much he's going to like this. Last year, when I was pregnant with our youngest baby he decided being a husband and a dad wasn't the lifestyle he wanted anymore and he ghosted, like gone without a trace. He has one baby he hasn't seen in over a year, and one he's never met. He's moved somewhere out of state and changed his phone number.
Divorcing someone who's completely unreachable is really tough and drawn out, so I'm trying to track him down to get his signature on a few papers so I can finally close this chapter and move on with my life.
I've heard he's going by "Charlie" now. He's british and charming AF. He's a chef and probably working in the hospitality industry somewhere. He's probably never mentioned having a wife or kids back in Massachusetts. If you know him, if you're working with him, if you're dating him or friends with him, can you please have him get in touch with me or let me know where I can find him
All the girls girls out there, feel free to share a friend of a friend has got to know where he is
A friend of a friend of a friend has got to know where he is.
Update:
UPDATE: Guys..... This is absolutely insane. I figured maybe someone in my area was still in touch with him but I absolutely did not expect this.I've gotten MORE than enough information to locate him. I have literally hundreds of messages to sort through, some with information and some with support and I appreciate all of them. Single moms are a special breed, and I know a lot of you have gone through the same situation I have.
Please know I truly do not wish him any type of ill will. I sincerely appreciate all of your support, but please do not make threats, spread hate, or try to go out and locate him. Truly I only want to see this situation resolved so me and my children can restart our lives and fix the damage done. At the end of the day I get to come home to my babies and be their mom, so I think I win regardless.
Also that karaoke video that everyone's sending .... I don't think that's actually him. So I apologize to whoever it is for your karaoke being blasted all over the internet. You did a great job though!
Thank you again to everyone
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